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Choosing Whether to Rent or Buy

While there are plenty of exceptions, those who are planning on being in an area for less than 5 years typically are ideal renter candidates & aren't the best candidates for buying because of the fees involved in selling being a much higher starting point than buying (though there are exceptions). For those planning on living in an area for more than 5 years, especially for much longer periods of time, in Hampton Roads buying should be considered. "Two US Census Bureau researchers have determined that the biggest determinants of household wealth are owning a home and having a retirement account." The net worth gap between renters and homeowners is staggering, with estimates often between 40 times greater and 80 times greater total net worth of homeowners vs renters.

Per the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development, "Why should I buy, instead of rent?
Answer: A home is an investment. When you rent, you write your monthly check and that money is gone forever."

Often the choice about whether to rent or buy is cultural. If your parents owned, you're more likely to own, and if they rented, you're more likely to rent. There are also many misperceptions about owning and renting from both sides. It's important to weigh the options and choose which is best for you based on accurate information. The following is a 2018 table by Urban Institute:

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Image courtesy Virginia Realtors from Census Bureau Data from 2022, with cost burdened defined as those paying >30% of their income on housing (rent or mortgage payments).

When to Buy
(Factors Positively Influencing Decision to Buy)

Plans to live in home for at least 5 years (in a typical market) & willingness to accept the risk of responsibility to achieve higher net worth & lower housing payment vs renting. Related: Hampton Roads Market
 
Credit at least 550 in some cases & 640 in others. However, there is 1 program with mortgages where credit score is not considered, other programs that go below 550, & there are free credit boosting options for prospective home buyers.
 
2 years of income in the same field  even if you change jobs with some exceptions (such as recent college grads coming out with contracts in their field where they don't need 2 years experience). Related: What do I Need to Buy a Home?
 
Experiences with bad landlords or property managers (reviews for property managers are generally relatively low compared to many other businesses including real estate firms for sales) in the past & desire to not repeat those experiences
 
Desire to have the freedom to make substantial changes to home or otherwise invest in long-term ways, such as the landscaping, paint, fixtures, or otherwise
 
Presence of better options of programs to reduce home cost when buying than renting in many cases, including but not limited to programs that transfer rental assistance to buying help such as this one; get your personalized report on possible programs to help you buy here, as buyers are most often unaware of all their options

High appreciation projection for the coming year
Projected increase in mortgage rates in the future like this article in January 2021.

Monthly cost is less than renting for a comparable home in many cases, so be sure to run the numbers, and factor those numbers into breaking even or making a profit

Desire to rent out rooms to others

Desire to have rental property investment

Those with a high volume of pets or certain kinds of pets who are unwilling to part with their pets, unable to find adequate housing to accommodate their pets, committed to not taking a loss on a sale, & committed to keeping up the home well.

Those who have a long-term, healthy marriage, & who have other contributing factors that positively impact marital stability, such as but not limited to higher education levels, higher income levels, & a faith connection that favors marital restoration over divorce.

Those looking for asset protections so that they can retain certain benefits that would be unavailable if they had too much liquid capital, such as those on Medicaid or Supplemental Security Income who just became disabled, who just inherited a large sum, or who just were awarded a large sum from a lawsuit.

When to Rent (Factors Positively Influencing Decision to Rent)

Those under 18

Plans to live in a home for less than 5 years in a typical market


Going through marital conflict, especially a divorce that isn't finalized yet & where provisions haven't been established yet in a separation agreement to factor in real estate purchases.

Those who are unmarried & romantically involved who are considering cohabitation, where if a breakup were to occur, neither party could afford the mortgage.


Going through bankruptcy that isn't finalized yet.

High depreciation projection for the coming year, especially when combined with a projected decrease in mortgage rates.
 
Moving from 1 industry to at least one other in the past 2 years with some exceptions as described under "When to Buy"
 
Desire for increased flexibility in transitioning from one home to another with no desire to have an option to make profits during transitions
 
Job that forces one to rapidly move from place to place with no assistance for buying or selling from the job, or high job uncertainty with limited options for your profession in the area you're considering. For instance, a new principal at a school I knew well wisely lived in a hotel initially after moving from another state while many encouraged him to purchase, only to find that he lost his job within his 1st year there prior to moving back to his previous state. 
 
Free or significantly discounted rent available with family or others and desire to not rent out rooms to pay for the entirety of a mortgage or enough of a mortgage to cover everything but annual equity gains depending on the situation. One exception is if the same amount or a similar amount that you were getting for rent is available for a purchase, such as the Housing Choice Voucher program, also known as Section 8, being available to used for a purchase.

Seeking to move to a completely new area from another distant location (i.e. another state) not due to job or education, but because you think that life will be better in VA than it is where you are now despite never having lived here to try it out first.

Taking a job on in a completely new area from another state where you're currently based when you aren't confident that you'll have job security at that job for at least 3 years (i.e. a brand new job type for you, a job with no long term contract, or a brand new company to work for), especially if that employer has the only similar jobs in that new area. This case is particularly true of immigrants considering housing options who aren't moving to a location with family support geographically present in that new area.

Those in assisted living or hospice facilities, especially who have bought into them (i.e. for $300k) & who don't need to protect other assets to receive certain benefits.

Those with debilitating disabilities to the point where they are under the care of a guardian who is not advising a purchase or their (especially if a CPA is also consulted) or counselors are advising against a home purchase (especially if those advisors are owners themselves & not receiving compensation for the one with the disability to rent from them).

Those with a rapidly growing family, i.e. newlyweds who don't believe in birth control, who could end up with a "full quiver" of kids, & who either wouldn't want any kids sharing the same rooms or who would have difficulty abiding by law such as in VA no children over 2 sharing beds or sharing rooms with adults in most cases, no children under 7 using the top bunk of bunk beds, no children of the opposite sex shall share the same room during sleeping, as well as rooms having adequate sq ft for multiple children in 1 room (70 sq ft minimum for 1, 50 sq ft per child w/ 2+), & additional requirements as of 3/25/23


Low credit negatively influences both renting and purchasing substantially, but in each case, there are some substantial options for workarounds. Those with low credit are able to still rent some homes, and those with low credit or no credit are able to still acquire mortgages to purchase homes through the right channels and as long as certain conditions are met. However, low credit also can mean higher debts, so living in a worse home temporarily for rent while paying off high-interest debts more quickly before purchasing a better home can in some cases be beneficial as long as appreciation doesn't outpace, interest rates don't go up for the house, etc.

Unconventional Options - Neither Purchasing a Traditional House Nor Renting One:
Those actively engaged in or pursuing live-aboarding on a boat or similarly living highly frugally for their home environment (i.e. for <$200/month as my friends did at a dock in Yorktown (video link above) including utilities; see liveaboard column for local docking options
here).

Here's the recent growth rate of rent.

Many Exceptions

There are a multitude of exceptions to the general rules above. Even if you fall within some of the situations above, it's still a good idea to ask me about if you might qualify as an exception. A cash buyer, of course, can save $ much more quickly, as can those acquiring closing cost assistance, good deals, & using other high-value programs to reduce home cost, some of which reduce cost by as much as 50%.

My exception example: I was living rent-free with my family prior to purchasing a home where I rented out rooms to cover the mortgage for 1 month to test out and prove the ability to do so prior to getting married. If I had rented a comparable home, the rent payment would have likely been >40% more than the mortgage payment, & >50% once my PMI was knocked off. In addition, because I got such a good deal, my net worth immediately dramatically increased as repairs were made to the house from the conventional renovation mortgage loan I acquired with relatively low-interest rates & low PMI in light of my credit score being above 760. The student loans I had were less than the equity gains within 1 year because it was such a good deal. Also, the majority of the 5% I needed for the down payment was covered by down payment assistance, the majority of the closing costs were covered by the seller, and my PMI was removed in less than 2 years after I requested that it be removed and cited that I had roughly 30% equity based on the appraisal vs. the mortgage amount. My home was the most lucrative investment I've ever made, even though I have invested into stock in my life that increased by around 1000% but was a lower net volume gain than I achieved with my home purchase. Rather than selling my home and turning a large profit after 2 years, I rented it out for a positive cash flow investment property. While paying off my mortgage & having positive rental cashflow, the property grew in value by over 20% due to appreciation. I've also been able to raise the rent from the initial amount I charged due to increased rental prices (like homes appreciate in value, rents increase over time as well).

Be sure to use a calculator as well such as the one I list on my Rent or Buy Calculator page.

If renting is currently your best option, see my page for it here.

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